So how did you get on with coming up with your own definition of life coaching.
You know it's important to understand that I'm not going to be giving you any quizzes through this course
that you can get right or that you can get wrong.
I'm really intending and doing is sharing as many different resources models techniques tools principles
that you can take adopt into your own life.
In view of applying in any which way you choose to.
It's important to understand that when life cord shaking or if you're in counselling or neurolinguistic
programming many of the frameworks are models that are going to be sharing with you throughout this
course are all stemming from these various disciplines.
Anyway what you may say is that I'm quite well studied in this video what I would really like to do
is is just bring to your awareness three of them mean different learning styles.
It's important that you understand this because on one level is going to is going to impact and influence
how much you do or don't get from this course.
And then on an other level we're also going to impact influence how other people in the future get what
they get from you because of three main learning styles are people who learn primarily through visual.
So if you're watching this course right now your Perhaps a visual learner you might like seeing lots
of different stuff on the board behind me.
You might like some of the stock video footage and the like well the striations on all the cool stuff.
And then there's going to be some people who are just going to be happy listening to their empathy or
you downloads which are incidentally also available in the additional material section of each video
lecture.
There are some people who learn through the feelings that the touch or that come attached to different
principles or life lessons or so on and so forth.
Which leads me on to the first metaphore metaphoric story that I'm going to share with you in the course.
No Before I tell you this story I would just like to help you to understand the worst you might love
this story.
There's going to be other people in the world who as I start telling the story will start again frustrated.
Right.
And there's a pretty good chance that at some point in the future even received some hate mail Kane
you tell too many stories in this course and people who complain about stories.
It's not because they're bad people or haters of stories.
It's just that their learning style is going to be more Harp's visual or auditory.
So as life coach shows what I'm going to encourage you to become completely aware of.
We're off.
It's what you mean preferred learning style.
Because if you can understand this it is going to help you on one level overcome any preferences or
by us that you have towards them and I say or anything that I do or anything that pops up on the screen
before you.
And then on another level it's going to help you to understand and relate better to other people as
you become more balanced in you're learning you become more able to empathically really to the learning
preferences of other people which will therefore allow you to adapt and adjust your teaching or communication
skills communication style for them.
Because remember I've already said that in life when it comes to coaching people it is sometimes not
what we say.
It's sometimes how we say what we see through the use of our tonality or language or body lying which
variable non-variable in which pattern is going to be covering all of this with you later on through
the later sections of the course.
But for now I want to get back to the metaphor because this metaphor I'm hoping that if you come with
me on this journey you're going to be able to see what I see through listening to what I'm seeing through
a story.
Now what's the purpose of life coaching.
Yes I've already written the definition on the board.
And no you should hopefully have your own hand crafted a definition and the wernberg you don't it in
the last video.
But this story that I'm about to share with you share is off a conversation that was once growing up
in the heavenly starts right up at the heavens.
The gods were having this convention because they had this little problem you see now for decades centuries
millennia.
The Gods had had this power this power the power of the knowledge of truth and the gods knew what it
meant to be human what their gods had become aware of was that the human race were evolving scientifically
technologically.
They were becoming more aware of what it meant to be human.
Through the advancing sciences such as psychology sociology philosophy life coaching any oppty all these
sorts of things.
And now the gods have began to become a little bit concerned that the human race.
We discover the truth of what it actually means to be human.
Because if the human race was to discover the truth this would actually put them on a par with the Gods
Earth humans became the same as the gods than the gods would lose their power.
So they didn't want this.
So the purpose of this debate this conversation the gods were having was to discuss our practical solution
and where it would be that they could hide their truths.
So the human race wouldn't find them.
So amidst debate in the discussion what if the gods put his hand in the air and says yes I'm the god
of the oceans I propose they would take the truth of what it means to be human and bury them down at
the depths of the deepest ocean because humans haven't yet developed a submarine or any kind of diving
updraughts that would enable them to find them there.
The gods seem to be in agreement until the littlest God the smallest God in the crowd stepped forward
and said sorry guys.
Excuse me excuse me.
Listen that's a fantastic idea.
Listen we've already established that the human race is evolving scientifically and technologically
at such a phenomenal rate.
It is truly the marker of a couple of years before the humans developed some sort of diving breathing
apparatus that's going to enable them to survive in the depths of the deepest ocean.
And if they do then this stand to potentially discover and uncover our truths which means it's game
over red rover for us so I don't want that and the Gods again were in agreement.
So it was back to the drawing board and there was some ideas getting branded around here and there into
one of the gods put his hand up and he said yes I'm the god of the mountains I propose that we take
this truth's the truth of what it means to be human.
Up to the peaks of the highest mountain and buried underneath a couple of feet of ice and snow.
Because the human race can even survive up there.
And the gods said Yea that's a fantastic idea.
It's a great idea let's do.
Intel again.
Let the squad step forward and say Listen guys guys come on please.
We've already established that the human race is evolving scientifically and technologically at such
a phenomenal rate.
It's only a matter of a number of years before they develop some sort of claiming breathing apparatus
is going to enable them to survive up there.
And if they can survive up there guess what they're going to uncover our truths and then we lose our
influence.
Again the gods were back to the drawing board and between them for the life of them they couldn't come
up with a practical solution of where to hide these troops until it just became a heated squabble in
our arguments a debate at which point the chief God.
We did stuff on the floor he said cidones.
Does anyone have a practical solution or a proposal or one whereas we can hide these truths somewhere
that the human race won't think.
So look for them and then the littlest God step forward and he said Yep I've got an idea I've got a
proposal one where we could hide these truths because for centuries the human race has been looking
in the text books have been looking over its space have been looking at its biology and their art.
How about this.
We just hide the truth of what it is to be human inside of the human race because they're so busy looking
outside of themselves for all these answers they'll never think about looking for the truth of life.
There are hot hot hot or the truth of life though I've told you this story and some people in the world
will see or came can get on it get on with it.
That story was too long for my liking.
I must not because I tell a bad story.
Not because my bad communicator.
It's just because you have a different learning style than other people.
So if you're frustrated right now then this is why you are learning styles.
Most likely going to be visual or auditory.
The purpose of me telling the story in this video at this stage of the Course is on one level just to
introduce you to one method of communicating.
Where.
Why haven't told here.
Is that all the answers that you're looking for are within you.
No if I had said that right back at the start of video you would have said yes that's true.
Thanks for telling me that Ken.
But I know through telling a story a story as a practical means by which we can actually elmasry and
show people exactly what we mean visually as they reflect upon the story inside of themselves.
No on the second level.
This story represents another truth which kind of ties in with more of the principles and the core beliefs
that are shared with a few.
Video was a go and this is that you know people fundamentally have all the resources that they need
to overcome.
Challenge or any obstacle where any given moment in time the only problem the people have is that they
just genuinely believe that they don't.
So this one story can be really used to illustrate that core foundational belief.
But if you think about it.
Have you ever had a conversation with someone at any point in the past about beliefs.
There are some people over there that you know believe in God.
There's some people out there who are atheists.
Some people believe in the local football team.
Some people believe in aliens and all these sorts of things.
Oh no.
When you step out life coaching race you're going to be coming up against all people's different beliefs
all of the time.
And when you address someone's beliefs guess what you're actually Or you may be perceived as attacking
the core foundations in which they're holding their lifes.
And you know when it comes to being human and growing up the only thing that we can ever grow on top
of in life other limiting beliefs we develop about a self at some point in the past US as children growing
up in life means growing in maturity growing in decisiveness growing inconsistency and growing in strength
as we become slightly more clear on who we are and exactly what it is that we're capable of achieving.
But we do appreciate that this might sound quite big to us and feel great.
No I'm not saying these things to impress your motivator or enthusiast or any of these sorts of things.
But just to press a point here the same life coaching sometimes doesn't have to be about having all
the answers.
Sometimes we can just be artfully vague through telling stories that something is going to be more than
enough to give someone a little flicker of inspiration or hope enthusiastic in the first few steps they
need to take to overcome their problems for themselves.
So that's all for this video.
I've got something really fascinating.
Well you know I find fascinating to share with you.
And the next.